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#SOL19 Heart-Shaped Note

6/18/2019

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​When it comes to teaching, there are many hard things. One of the hardest for me is letting go at the end of the year. The more I know to give my heart and soul each year, the harder it is to let them go.

They are my kids, right? I had them for nine months, and no one can possibly know them, teach them, or love them the way I did.

It’s a truth that feels as solid as rock… that is until I meet the others who continue the work.

Last week, I met a teacher at an out of town workshop I attended.

She sat across from me and we began some small talk. I discovered she worked at the school where my students moved on to 5th and 6th grade. As we chatted, she began sharing names of students, trying to find one we had in common.

After a few unfamiliar names, she paused for a moment and tried one more. “Was X… your student?” she offered. The name caught my attention immediately. “Yes,” I whispered, nodding quietly while falling back into memories of the student, his struggles, and my hopes for him.   

Writing for him was hard. I remember.

For a quiet moment, we reflected. We had something special in common. This kid was special, and we connected knowing this simple truth.

She smiled, and then quickly reached down into her wallet and carefully pulled out a red heart-shaped note. I knew what it was before she handed it to me. I often carry similar treasures in my own bag. It was a note from a student to his teacher.

In that precious note, he shared details of her impact on his learning and thanked her for teaching him.

After reading the note, I pressed it over my heart and thanked her for sharing it with me. We both knew how special it was.

​It warmed my heart to know this tiny paper filled much more than her teacher wallet. He left my classroom with a love for writing. She made that clear to me. And knowing she could see through his struggle to see something beautiful in him, brought comfort.
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I am not the only one in this hard work. It’s good to be reminded. There are others who do the work, and many others who love them, too.
14 Comments
Ramona link
6/18/2019 03:05:58 pm

Oh, I love this slice. Welcome to our community! What a pleasure to meet this teacher and share memories of a student. Isn't it lovely to learn there are others who love them too?

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Marina link
6/18/2019 05:17:10 pm

Thank you for the welcome, Ramona! Yes, what a chance meeting this teacher. It definitely is nice to know they are loved after they leave our classrooms.

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Stacey link
6/18/2019 03:23:09 pm

So, you made me cry with your first slice. This is just so touching. It shows that the heartwork you did with that student paid off!

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Marina link
6/18/2019 05:24:35 pm

I so love your response, Stacey. Thank you for that! What we do is most definitely "heartwork," and heartwork is so, so hard. Workshop is not for the faint at heart.

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JudyK link
6/18/2019 04:05:45 pm

Oh, this is beautiful! How nice to be reassured that the loving and caring for students does go on after they leave us. Such peace it brings. ~JudyK :-)

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Marina link
6/18/2019 05:42:56 pm

Thank you, Judy. It is reassuring to know the loving and caring continues after they leave. It does bring just a bit of peace. Just a little. Sometimes, there are those you just want to keep growing, and nine months is not long enough.

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Amanda Potts link
6/18/2019 04:52:49 pm

What a lovely moment! What an incredible bond! And your slice is just what I needed today, on our last day of teaching, when I had to send my own precious students off. Thank you for reminding me that teachers form a community of support for even those who are vulnerable. And thanks for joining the Slice of Life community!

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Marina link
6/18/2019 07:35:31 pm

Thank you for your kind words, Amanda. It's nice to finally join the Slice of Life community. You're right, it is good to know a community of support does exist as they move on.

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Jaana
6/18/2019 05:32:11 pm

What a touching moment! Rewards come in all different color notes. These are the memories that I carry in my heart. Thank you for sharing and welcome!

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Marina link
6/18/2019 07:39:27 pm

"Rewards come in all different color notes." I love that line! Yes, they do. Thank you, Jaana!

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Read Write Travel Repeat link
6/18/2019 05:37:46 pm

Thanks for sharing this beautiful celebration!

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Marina link
6/18/2019 07:55:55 pm

Thank you for reading!

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Chris link
6/21/2019 06:50:50 am

We educators live for these moments, don't we? The validation that we have indeed made a difference. I think it was by cosmic design that you sat across from that teacher!

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Marina link
6/22/2019 10:26:13 pm

We do. There are these moments and many others, too.

"by cosmic design..." Something think about. Thank you.

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